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7 Unconventional Attitudes That Lead To Success

Posted: 13 Aug 2013 04:08 AM PDT

Universal wisdom says follow the golden rule – work hard and work more. This common acumen or the so-called Golden Rule of success surely works very well but those who succeed in life work a tad differently. Their working style and behaviors go against the typical long bred common sense. They produce results with something anomalous. These uncustomary ways of success provide a platform for others as well to climb the ladder of success. Here are 7 unconventional attitudes that lead to success:

7. Let Go Some Things:

Very rarely does someone achieve everything what he sets out to accomplish initially. No one can rear a tiger and deer in one cage simultaneously. To put it straight, you should let go of some things and concentrate on the ones you can't actually do without. Remember, you don't need all things and as you base your thoughts about this universal idea your wants will diminish automatically and you will be a more successful person. Long-term fulfillment or success is not only about worldly pleasures. Remember that!

Let Go Some Things

6. Criticize Yourself:

You should learn to take brickbats with healthy spirit as they can evolve you into a better person. You should analyze your performance during the day before hitting the bed each night. Performance reviews are must and should find a place in your daily routine, if you aspire to mend all your weaknesses. No one is perfect right from the day one. Even Einstein must have come up with hundreds of theories in the beginning that he didn’t approve of in the later stages. Just make sure you aren’t too easy on yourself!

Criticize Yourself

5. Make Your Own Path:

"I walk a lonely road the only road that I have ever known" – you must be remembering this popular score from Boulevard of Broken Dreams. The song clearly showcases the worth of walking alone especially if your objective is really different from others. No two people can analyze the same object similarly. No, they're not wrong. It's just that you’ve a different opinion about success, career and life in general. So, listen to what others have to say, disagree with a smile and keep walking on the path you know will lead to the zenith you want to touch so dearly.

Make Your Own Path

4. Make Your Own Identity:

A popular saying goes this way – "People laugh at me because I am different; I laugh at them because all of them are same."  A distinct identity is what makes your stand out from the regular crowd. Similar ideas kill innovation and innovation is mother of success in contemporary terms. The day you own a discrete be rest assured that you are nearing boundaries of success. People will advertise their ignorance in all ways possible. Remember, 90 percent of people in this world are failures. They hate their lives. Don't borrow ideas on how you should live, work or dream from others. Do your own thing. Create your own personality, one small brick at a time.

Make Your Own Identity

3. Innovate And Re-Innovate:

Life is all about innovation. You should learn to innovate and re-innovate if you want to live an eventful life. You should try to make impact with every decision of yours. Even if your decision backfires, don't cow down. Start up all over again.  Remember, innovation provides solution for every crisis. In fact, it's a crisis that paves way for a new thought or idea. These ideas, when worked upon and nurtured by emotional belief, lead to success.

Innovate And Re-Innovate

2. Offense Is The Best Form Of Defense:

If offense happens to be the best form of defense, always ensure your attitude is aggressive. A successful person is the one who hits back at the adversities in life with forceful punches. To be flourishing, learn to go all out with your plans and bulldoze the troubles approaching you. Don't expect to win every time; ain’t happening. But, work in way that you want nothing less than a victory each time. That's what winners do.

Offense Is The Best Form Of Defense

1. Go Against The Flow:

It's much safer to swim with flow. Those who work against the tide have to encounter numerous challenges. No, don't join the herd. Just be wise. If you have heart of a brave man, be ready to make ways through hard-hitting circumstances all alone as very few will accompany you through thorny roads. Remember David ultimately beat Goliath despite all challenges in the story in Bible.

Go Against The Flow

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Top 10 Ways to Look Hot at Work

Posted: 13 Aug 2013 03:50 AM PDT

Top 10 Ways to Look Hot at Work

10. Pop of Colors

Pop of Colors

9. Lady Like

Lady Like

8 . Short Suit

Short Suit

7. Flower Power

Flower Power

6. Statement Neckpiece

Statement Neckpiece

5. Evergreen

Evergreen

4. All White

All White

3. Color Blocking

Color Blocking

2. Power Suit

Power Suit

1. Friday Dressing

Friday Dressing

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Top 10 Most Popular Child Actors In Bollywood

Posted: 13 Aug 2013 02:06 AM PDT

From Master Raju to Darsheel Safarey, child stars have been an incredible success in the Hindi film industry. These cute little faces add another dimension to the script and complement the story with their cute gullible touches. There was a time when sizable part of the movie goers' crowd expected directors to accommodate a role for a child artist in the movie – the frequency of such roles have dwindled lately but not wiped out completely. Here is a list of top 10 popular child actors in Bollywood.

10. Darsheel Safarey:

It was in the year 2007 that Darsheel Safarey made his Bollywood debut in a movie named 'Taare Zameen Par'. He was showered with plenteous accolades for the enactment of a role of an autistic child with great level of commitment and nimbleness. Since then, he has been showcased in a different light from other Bollywood child actors for the amount of resourcefulness in his acting skills. This makes him one of the most accepted Bollywood child stars currently.

Darsheel Safarey

9. Parzan Dastur:

More famous as 'Bablu' from Dhara oil ad, Parzan Dastur has graced many movies with his credulous existence and recital. In the length of the years, we saw him acting in numerous movies including more well-liked ones such as 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai' (KKHH) and 'Sikander'. It was for his adorable expressions and cute baby looks he was a craze with the movie-goers. His 'stars-counting' scenes in KKHH won him thousands of kisses (including mine) from the fans.

Parzan Dastur

8. Urmila Matondkar:

She is best known for her association with the critically acclaimed movie 'Masoom' in 1983. The 'Rangeela' girl later on went on to make a mark as one of the top most heroines in Bollywood. She is counted among the next gen tribe of Indian actors who successfully encashed their popularity of childhood days to settle as established actors in their youth.

Urmila Matondkar

7. Kunal Khemu:

One of the most popular child actors in the 90's era, Kunal Khemu who is considered as one among the most talented young breed of actors presently, has acted in many films in the past in the capacity of a child actor. The child artiste of significantly acclaimed movies such as   'Zakhm' and 'Hum Hain Rahi Pyar Ke' earned the same amount of screen space as the other protagonists in the flick despite being less in age. This shows his popularity level with the audience of time.

Kunal Khemu

6. Aftab Shivdasani:

Better known as the 'Complan Boy' who appeared in the advertisement along with baby Ayesha Takia went on to become one of the famous male heartthrobs for few years in Bollywood. Apart from the regular commercials on the TV, he was part of the movies such as Mr. India, Shehenshah and Chaalbaaz.

Aftab Shivdasani

5. Hansika Motwani:

How can one forget the cute little girl from 'Koi Mil Gaya' starring opposite Hrithik Roshan and Preity Zinta, who stole hearts of one and all with her endearing performance? She has also starred in various TV serials including 'Shaka Laka Boom Boom' in the past as a child actor. At present she is pursuing her career as an actress in south Indian movie industry.

Hansika Motwani

4. Padmini Kolhapure:

Most famous for her child role in Raj Kapoor's 'Satyam Shivam Sundaram' (1977), Padmini Kolhapure is regarded as one of the best child artists, courtesy her sheer acting skills, best of the breed Indian movie industry has ever seen. She is still celebrated for her performance in the 1980 released 'Gehrayee' where she played the role of a black magic inflicted girl.

Padmini Kolhapure

3. Master Bittu:

Vishal Desai who was popularly known as 'Master Bittu' played many roles as a child star in the movies. The famous child star acted alongside the likes of Pran, Amitabh Bachhan, Shashi Kapoor and many other cine-greats in the block buster movies of 70's such as Amar Akbar Anthony, Chupke Chupke, Yaarana, Mr. Natwarlal. He is presently working on directorial jobs in Bollywood.

Master Bittu

2. Shweta Prasad:

One of the most talented actresses in the present Bollywood crop of actors, Shweta Prasad is better known for her role in the critically acclaimed 2002 film 'Makdee'. She won the National Film Award for Best Child Artist for her performance in the same flick. She has earned huge praise from Bollywood veteran and renowned theater artist Shabana Azmi for the kind of life she brings in her acts.

Shweta Prasad

1. Master Raju:

Raju Shreshtha is still distinctively known as Master Raju (the word master was credited with his name for the child stars of Bollywood) despite him having entered the 47th year of his life. Such was the charm of this cute little boy of yesteryears that his presence was almost binding in every movie of the era. His most remarkable performances are in the blockbusters of 1970's named 'Bawarchi', 'Chitchor', and 'Kitab'.  The darling child star of former times bagged National Film Award for Best Child Artist for 'Chitchor' (1976).

Master Raju

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6 Common Experiences Our Brain Always Remember

Posted: 12 Aug 2013 11:35 PM PDT

Human brain is an incredibly complex organ that stores huge volumes of information. But, the information is not always available for easy access, unless of course if you’ve got that pill Bradley Cooper ingested everyday and wrote a novel in few weeks, made millions in the stock market and got back his lost love. Regardless of how sharp or dull your brain is, it will give more preference to some experience than others. These experiences, of course, are not ordinary. The mind does not remember anything ordinary or casual for a long time. Sometimes, not even for few minutes. Listed below are 6 common experiences our brain always remember:

6. Rejection:

'Rejection' by a prospective life partner, employer or institution you so much wanted to be a part of can be devastating. It can make you weaker or stronger depending on how you take it. In any case, your brain is going to remember it for many-many years to come. Whether it made you sob in solitude or motivated you to work harder, you'd remember it as an experience that 'changed' your beliefs and outlook towards many things in life.

Rejection

5. First Sex:

Whether you had sex for the first time at the age of 16 or on your wedding night when you were 24, your brain is going to store this information, complete with pictures, sounds, touch sensations etc. at an easily accessible closet. You can open the closet anytime you want to. The impression is going to be even stronger if you were making out with a person you were truly, madly and deeply in love with. That was the first time your brain really experienced what it is like to feel merged with another person. That was the first time your brain was completely knocked out for few seconds and hell yeah, it enjoyed every tiny microsecond of it.

First Sex

4. When you Escaped Death or Serious Danger:

Have you ever escaped an accident or found yourself 'saved' when you just thought the worst had happened. It can happen in a relationship, at work, on road or anywhere else. It's an experience in which the human brain freaks out for some time, loses all hope and passes on nerve signals to the body – Brace yourself, the Worst is here – and then, it's alright.

When you Escaped Death or Serious Danger

3. Someone Crushes Your Ego:

Of all things in the material world, it's our 'Ego,' a 'useful fiction' as Osho used to call it, that's dearest to us all. No, we're not even aware of our own egos because when we are, it ceases to exist. Tricky, no? But, if someone crushes your ego, makes you feel a 'nobody,' a loser or worse, shows you the 'bad' side of you in a manner you’ve never seen before, your brain is going to bleed dry and needless to say, it'll remember the experience for a very-very long time!

Someone Crushes Your Ego

2. Unconditional Love Sprouts in Your Heart:

The moment you feel unconditional love kindled in your heart, you'd feel like a million tiny stars bursting out from the pores of your body. The gravity, it seems, has disappeared. All negative impressions of the past, no matter how painful they were, collapse like a sand sculpture within no time. Experiencing selfless love for nature, a person, God or anyone else is something that puts the restless mind at ease. The mind ceases to broadcast tons of information and it remembers this anomaly, for a lifetime.

Unconditional Love Sprouts in Your Heart

1. You Feel the Emptiness:

Have you ever climbed a mountain you thought was impossible for you to scale? Ever felt a fleeting void? The experience of true emptiness or 'moment of enlightenment' as some would like to call it remains as a permanent impression in the mind. This neuropath-way once created, cannot be erased even if you try to. This is one experience that can change your outlook towards the life. It can make you a good person. It can make you fall in love with nature. It can alter your beliefs. Naturally, your brain will remember it forever. It's an experience beyond the understanding of the human brain. And, human brain is okay with it. Why? Well, the brain remembers it as an experience when it no longer existed!

You Feel the Emptiness

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8 Depressing Facts About The Internet

Posted: 12 Aug 2013 11:15 PM PDT

The internet is said to be the greatest invention by mankind right up there with the steam engine and the wheel. It’s literally changed our world and affected the entire earth. We are now living in the age of the internet revolution. And there is no doubt that the internet has had a lot of good effects on the world. But there are certain negative effects of the internet as well. These effects are not because there is something inherently wrong with the internet but it just reflects what’s wrong with our society and amplifies the effects. This can be a little depressing to seriously think about what these negative effects imply. Here are 8 depressing facts about the internet.

8. It’s Filled With Porn:

As soon as the internet was made, people said, “oh what a great invention, now we can watch porn anywhere!” I mean how sex obsessed are we? Most people spend a large part of their online time, surfing porn. Now that we have a lot more social networking sites, this might have decreased a little bit but I’m sure still most of us do surf for porn at one time during the day. It’s just disgusting.

It's Filled With Porn

7. It’s Ruining Grammar:

Grammar and spellings have taken a bit hit because of the internet. AFK, BRB, GTG, ROFL, LOL, FAQ, FYI, IMHO, the list of internet abbreviations just goes on. I mean seriously WTF! Soon we’d be speaking a language that would be completely different from English. Some would say it’s a natural evolution of the language and we shouldn’t fight it but for a grammar freak like me it’s really depressing to see the state of our language. And don’t even get me started on emoticons!

It's Ruining Grammar

6. It Has Led To Reduced Attention Spans:

There is so much information on the internet that it’s become a problem in itself. The information highway is full of traffic and it has led to reduced attention spans. We find it hard now to read a long document when we can get the same information in 140 character tweets. This problem is becoming apparent among the children of today’s generation.

It Has Led To Reduced Attention Spans

5. Can’t Have A Healthy Discussion On Any Topic:

One thing that really infuriates me is trolling. No matter where you go you can always find trolls there. Internet was supposed to open up debates about various topics but it’s so hard to have a serious discussion about any topic with hundreds of trolls ready to argue your every point with deformed logic. There are videos, blogs and sites on the internet that represent every point of view in the world but none of them are helping anyone because they are full of comments from trolls that hate that particular point of view.

Can't Have A Healthy Discussion On Any Topic

4. Homophobia and Misogyny Are Rampant:

A depressing thing is to see how many people are still homophobic and misogynist and racist. All forms of discriminations are found on the internet and it just reflects how backwards our thinking still is. We have become a global society but our attitudes haven’t changed much since the 19th century. Good people are working towards all these topics but it’s depressing to see how many people still don’t get it.

Homophobia and Misogyny Are Rampant

3. Only 1% Of Users Are Creators:

The whole world is online but according to some studies only 1% of the people online are creators. The rest are either contributors or just lurkers. Some people just go around abusing others in comments and do nothing else. With such a great tool available it would have been really interesting to see everyone become creators but people haven’t taken on that role yet.

Only 1% Of Users Are Creators

2. Social Or Anti-Social Networking?

The social networking sites that have brought people of around the world closer have also taken neighbors away from each other. Today everyone has their head buried in their device. Everyone is busy tweeting and liking and sharing and posting stuff on social networks but they have no time to interact with the person sitting right in front of them.

Social Or Anti-Social Networking

1. It’s Led To Reduction in Productivity:

Another depressing thing about the internet is that it’s more of a distraction than a tool. If used properly it can be a great tool to improve productivity and collaborate with people around the world. But sadly most people waste 80% of the time they spend online doing unproductive stuff. Most of it is spent liking photos of your friend’s baby! The expectations from the internet were much higher. Maybe it will take some time before people can figure out a way to use the internet properly.

It's Led To Reduction in Productivity

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